Hi, I'm wondering because I've never really experienced domination as I would like. I've been mostly in relationships with men and it was mainly my partners who took the lead. I've tried so far the classic blindfold, also a bit of pain with slaps done with one hand, a bit of orders sometimes.
Recently, I discovered a little bit of a dominatrix side to myself, but still, rather soft, in a very gentle energy in the end. I don't see myself (not yet, at least) exploring all BDSM practices. I think I'm a bit stuck on these typical domination clichés = handcuffs, whips and an obligation to play the role to the end. In short, I feel a bit lost.
So, I would really like to talk about it with women in my situation, who are still looking for themselves as dominatrices, who really want it but don't dare or still feel a little uncomfortable with the idea of clearly expressing their desires.
